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Entries in Birth (16)

Wednesday
Nov072012

Awaiting the Imminent Birth of Your Second Child- New Dad Style

What goes through a man's mind as he awaits the birth of his second child? Truth? Not much. But, that could just be me. That old saying about a man's life not changing much until the birth of his second child may hold true for some, but I've been hands on since the beginning. From the day my daughter was born I was the calm, cool, collected guy with a newborn on his lap, sipping a cold coffee and just enjoying the moment. Of course, having the easiest kid in the world helped. Never cried. Slept in her own bed and (for the most part) through the night. Yeah, my daughter's been an absolute pleasure... I'm sure my second child will be just as easy, right?

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Wednesday
Jun272012

F4F'S 5 TYPES OF DELIVERY DAY DADS

On the eve before I find out the sex of my second born child (still baking in the oven), I'm looking 4+ months down the road to delivery day. I'm excited, to be sure, but it's been so long since the birth of my first child that I'm not so sure how I'm going to react when our newest addition makes his/her entrance in to the world.

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Wednesday
Jan042012

FODDER OF THE WEEK: DOULAS 4 DADS? IS THERE ROOM FOR A "DUDELA" IN THE DELIVERY ROOM

If you've never found yourself requiring the services of one, and have no clue why one might have come in handy during the birth of your child, you may be one of those guys who has no clue what a Doula is. But, how do you know what you need if you don't know what's out there?

By definition, a Doula is "a woman experienced in childbirth who provides advice, information, emotional support, and physical comfort to a mother before, during, and just after childbirth (source: www.Merriam-Webster.com)." 

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Thursday
Sep292011

FODDER OF THE WEEK: WHEN DAD REALLY DELIVERS- A BIRTH STORY LIKE NO OTHER

It seems like every minute of every day someone is posting a "unique" labor and delivery story. The online magazines are full of horrific and harrowing tales from hapless heroines (and their husbands) enduring endless hours of labour pains and arduous acts of acrobatics just to get one little baby (or two, or three, or eight) out a single vagina. Now, I don't want to be insensitive, as there are "stork" stories that will break your heart and many more that will inspire the soul, but, if you ask me, if you were able to walk in to a hospital and walk out two days later with a beautiful, healthy baby without having to suffer through an emergency C-section, or any complications that put you or your baby at serious risk, I gotta tell you, your story is BORING. Amazing (as the miracle of life should never be understated), but boring. Capital B-O-R-I-N-G.

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Wednesday
Aug102011

Basic Training: If Dads Ran Their Own Pre-Natal Classes...

Image courtesy of the film Full Metal Jacket, 1987


For a man, sitting through six weeks of pre-natal classes is no better than sleeping your way through a grade nine health class. Both are about the birds and the bees (with the obvious exception that one is about avoiding pregnancy and the other is about celebrating it) but neither teaches you anything you can't learn from your older brother. If you ask me, six weeks of breathing exercises, soothing massage techniques, the art of the foot rub, and expert commentary from people who merely want to hand out business cards can be better spent watching the "Baby Story" marathon on the Slice Network. Sure, you're there to support your wife, the one carrying 50 extra pounds of fetus, placenta and water weight, but even she feels your pain and wishes you didn't have to be there (mostly because your snoring is embarrassing her).

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